We’re Only Family If You Say So
Self-Released, 2021
9/10
Listen to We’re Only Family If You Say So
A now nomadic duo who used to call Nashville home, Mallory Graham and Scott Tyler, i.e. The Rough & Tumble, each play multiple instruments and sing on these 12 diverse songs that host many contributors to their self-described ‘dumpster folk’ and ‘thriftstore Americana’ ways.
“You Took Your Turn” starts the listen with cozy, spirited Americana as Graham’s soaring, gritty vocals glide alongside the carefully strummed guitars, and “You’re Not Going Alone” follows with more traditional country ideas present in the vocally strong climate that benefits much from Chris Benelli’s proficient drumming.
Near the middle, the rugged “Too Much” displays playful roots rock where Ron Selly’s harmonica makes an appearance, while “I Must Be The Sun” offers no shortage of melody in the dynamic, organic landscape. “Love Of God”, one of the album’s best, then moves with a gospel slant where Tyler’s expressive vocals take the lead on the sublime and moving song craft.
Approaching the end, Marc Herring’s pedal steel won’t go unnoticed in the twang friendly delivery of “Nothing Broke My Heart”, and “Old Kentucky” exits the listen with hints of folk music amid the mountain-esque songwriting that’s as timeless as it is memorable.
An album that carries themes of familial trouble and the subsequent heartbreak, We’re Only Family If You Say So is all substance and no flash, where instruments like accordion, glockenspiel, nose flute and many others make for a unique and absorbing listen that warrants repeated visits.
Travels well with: Zoe Fitzgerald Carter- Waterlines; Claire Kelly- The Scenic Route